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WHEN??
So
you're thinking of taking time off of school....the next big question
is: When? This page will examine the pros and cons of stepping out during different stages of your life. Click on the links below -or just scroll down the page- to learn more. WHEN SHOULD I STEP OUT???? High School "Gap Year": Between High School and College During College Post College Stepping Out Without Really Stepping Out: the Ultimate Summer How Long Should I Step Out For? Chart of Advantages and Disadvantages of each Period
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School Meredith Fleming, 22, spent a semester in Chile when she was 16. She explains that she “knew nothing about Chilean life and could hardly say a single sentence in Spanish”. However, she went because she “knew that pushing [her] comfort zone would inevitably open [her] eyes and give [her] a new perspective on life.” She explains: I
moved to
Chile without knowing the slightest thing about Chilean life - I half
expected to live in a moderate wood house with farm animals in the
yard. Instead I lived with an aristocratic family completely different
from my family at home. They were Pinochet [Chilean dictator]
supporters and by comparing my views to theirs I was able to solidify
my political beliefs even though they were contrary to my host
family's. From living with them I have learned that I despise
authoritarian theocracy and will direct my studies and career towards a
better understanding of the social injustice across the globe
Why step out during high school? As Meredith points out, it can help you find out what it is you are passionate about-at a younger age. Also, depending on the rigidity of your major and/or university, high school may be a time when you have more freedom to not be in school. Additionally, if you step out during high school, you get to experience all the benefits that come from it (greater self-awareness, deepened understanding of the world, perspective) even earlier on. Stepping out during high school isn’t right for everyone. High school may be too early for you. Making sure you are ready --emotionally, physically, financially-- for what it is you are planning to do is essential. Living somewhere new, living on your own, without the comfort of your culture and family, is a big deal. Additionally, it is important to examine where you're at personally. Do you want the consistency of being in the same school for four years? Are you willing to miss out on sports, plays, and/or dances that are a part of high school? Are you ready to live without your family for a long period of time? You will also have to carefully consider what you want to do if you are under 18. Many programs except only legal adults or have strict rules and guidelines for younger participants. If you are planning to travel, you may have problems finding places to stay if you are too young. Before deciding what it is you want to do, make sure you know the requirements and expectations of both the program and country. Irene Malarkey, 18, points out a difficulty in taking time off during high school: the difficulty in returning. She went abroad with an exchange program at age 15 to Mexico, living with a family in a small village, and then the following year she volunteered in Paraguay with Amigos de Los Americas. Explaining her frustration with coming back to high school, she says: “Coming
back to
high school after traveling
feels very superficial and is very frustrating. When I was in Mexico I
had all this exposure and immersion that made me feel more concerned
and more aware about the world; I returned to high school where other
students just didn’t understand. I went to Paraguay
the following
summer. There I worked as a volunteer with a youth group,
running
community projects, building a garden, organizing fundraisers, and
writing grant proposals…..I took my job seriously, working
with adults
and was treated like one. I came back to high
school where nobody
trusted me…to all the adults I was just another teenager
that skipped
class and got drunk every weekend. This lack of respect was
frustrating, and the whole environment felt superficial.”
It
is
important to consider what it is you want out of life and your
education before deciding when to step out. Taking time off
of school
can be addictive; if you think you want to go straight through school,
after taking, say, a term off in high school, be warned that could
prove more difficult than you thought. "Gap Year": Between High School and College In Great Britain, one in five students takes a “Gap Year”, a year spent working, traveling, or volunteering between high school and college; in fact, two of the most famous Brits, Prince William and Prince Harry, both took a Gap Year. Bookstores have a gap-year section, and there are a number of programs to help students find work and volunteer options abroad. Advantages to stepping out during this time include the fact that you do not have the experience of “missing out” because you are in transition between schools (high school and college). Additionally, it is a great time to explore some of the things you may be interested in studying. For example, if you are interested in forest ecology, you could spend part of your time interning in a national park or working for the Forest Service. Going between high school and college also serves as a nice break from traditional education. Jane, 21, explains it like this: I
knew when
I graduated from high school that, although I am by nature a bright and
eager learner, I needed a break before entering college.
After twelve
years I was disenchanted with classrooms and my hometown; I needed
fresh faces, different perspectives, and a new and freer
space.
Jane participated in National Civilian Community Corps (NCCC), a yearlong Americorps program where you live in a small community, volunteering in a series of short-term projects. She says, “NCCC was perfect for me because I got to live and work on meaningful projects on the other side of the country with energetic young people whose experiences were totally different from mine. It was unlike anything I’d ever done before”. Some things to consider before stepping out during this time are both where you want to go to school and when you will apply. Are you planning to apply senior year and then defer? What if you change what it is you want to do and where you plan to go while you are out of school? You may want to consult with a college admissions officer at a college fair or at the schools you would like to attend to learn more about their guidelines around deferring. Also, realize that some scholarships are only available to high school seniors; before applying for them make sure you are allowed to defer them for a year as well. (For more information on this, see the how section) During College Taking time off during college is a great break from university life for many students. Maybe you started school and are still unsure of what you want to study-now is a perfect time to "try on" different careers. Or maybe you are burnt out and ready for something new. Waiting until college probably means stepping out will not be your first time away from home. If you wait until you are in college, you've probably already had the chance to be on your own. Likely you are more mature than you were straight out of high school. It may be best to wait until this time -when you've had more life experiences under your belt- to take time off. Additionally, you may have a better idea of what sort of career you’re interested in while in college. Stepping out at this time in your life means you can intern in a field of your interest (now that you've had a chance to study or feel out different fields). Participating in a work experience during college can mean you've waited long enough to know what it is you are interested in, but not too long to change your major if you find your interests have changed. For many, waiting until college makes sense. Seth Prickett, 23, recently graduated from college. He spent a term abroad in Ghana during college, and after graduating spent four months teaching at a local school there. He holds high respect for people who went earlier, but admits, “I doubt very much that I would have been prepared, personally, to do something like that when I was 18.” Waiting until college means you may be able to get credit for your experience. Many colleges and universities offer internships and study programs abroad. If you wish to go through a program with your school, you may be able to get credit for your time out. Additionally, you may also be eligible for scholarships or financial aid from your school. Post College: Sometimes it makes the most sense to wait until you’re done with college to step out. Maybe your course of study was too intense to take a break from, or maybe you prefer the continuity of four straight years of university. Many jobs and programs cater to college graduates. For example, except in cases where you can show you are highly skilled in a specific field, the Peace Corps only accepts college graduates. Jesuit Volunteer Corps, a Catholic based volunteer organization committed to working with the poor, also accepts only college graduates. If you are planning to go to grad school, stepping out after college can serve as a nice break. You may choose to wait until after college and spend a year doing work related to your future graduate studies (like a medical internship in Africa if you are planning to go to medical school). Or maybe you did not get into the school or area of study you hoped for, and want to re-apply a year later. Having some "stepping out" experiences may help your application be more competitive if you choose to reapply. Post-college, the concepts of stepping out can be a way to learn more about yourself while preparing for the "real world" that is no longer in the distant horizon. Or maybe you are just unsure of what to do next. This happened for Seth Prickett, 23: To
be honest, the main
reason I decided
to come to Africa was because I didn't know what to do right after
college. If I would have received a good job in my field of study, political
science, I probably never would have traveled. Now that I am here, I
have found that there is a certain satisfaction that comes out of
charitable volunteer work that can't be found via successes in the
American dream. While I am still young and hopefully have some of the
successes awaiting me in the future, I will always know where to find
my true happiness.
The
Ultimate Summer: Stepping Out Without Really Stepping Out:An entirely different option is to step out without taking any time off of school. You can apply the ideas of stepping out (taking time off for an educational experience) during a summer. This is a great option if you do not want to miss out on any school. Cassie Defillipo, 21, spent the summer between her freshmen and sophomore year in Korea. She says: "Going in the summer worked out perfectly for me. I was able to actually get ahead in school because I did not miss out on any school and received credits for the program." Additionally, instead of paying for the credits, she got a living stipend. Stepping out during the summer is also a great option if you do not want to do something for a long amount of time. Maybe you can work for a month, and then travel for another month. The summer is a great time to get a "taste" of taking time off of school. So how is this different than any other summer? The idea behind stepping out, at least in relation to this website, is that you spend the time learning outside the classroom. It is a concious educational process where you learn more about yourself and your interests while pushing your comfort zone. How Long Should I Step Out For? This really depends on you and your situation. Here are a few things to consider:
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